

Discovering harmful or concerning sexual behavior between siblings can leave families feeling profoundly isolated, overwhelmed, and unsure where to turn.
At The Butterfly House, we provide a dedicated, supportive space to help both families and professionals navigate these complex dynamics. Through a tailored, trauma-informed approach, our focus is on understanding the root of the behavior, managing risk, and guiding families toward lasting safety and restoration.

Our mission is to support families affected by harmful sexual behaviour between siblings (HSB-S) to heal, rebuild trust, and restore safety. We recognise that HSB-S is a complex issue that creates deep trauma across the entire family system. By offering compassionate, timely support, we aim to help every family member process their experiences, resolve feelings of shame and guilt, and move forward with hope for the future. In doing so we hope to reduce the risk of poor life outcomes such as mental health difficulties, relationship problems, and risky behaviours.

We deliver structured, evidence-based assessments and interventions that are led by the unique needs, pace, and voices of each family. Drawing on established therapeutic frameworks, our work integrates systemic practice across the whole family system, psycho-education to support understanding and safety, trauma-focused interventions for re-processing and narrative approaches to help families build a shared story of healing. Our approach is consistent with current national guidance such as NICE guidelines and AIM HSB-S practice guidance.

We offer a supportive, reflective space for practitioners, teams, and organizations navigating complex cases of harmful sexual behaviour between siblings. Through expert clinical guidance, we help you unpack risk, safety planning, and family dynamics, empowering your team to make confident, child-centered decisions.

We provide independent, trauma-sensitive assessments for courts, local authorities, and legal professionals in care and criminal proceedings. Our evidence-informed reports evaluate risk, strengths, and family dynamics to guide decisions on safety, placement, and therapy, incorporating mental health, neurodevelopmental, or cognitive assessments where indicated.

If your family is navigating the aftermath of harmful sexual behaviour between siblings, a safe space to understand your path forward. We work sensitively with parents and children to explore what happened, map out each child’s unique emotional needs, and establish a clear, supportive roadmap for your family’s safety and healing.

Rebuilding safety and trust takes time, and we are here to support your family’s recovery. Through tailored therapeutic sessions, we help children make sense of their experiences in safe, age-appropriate ways while equipping parents with the tools, confidence, and boundaries needed to lead their family forward.

When families wish to explore reconnection or reunification, we guide you through a careful, structured, and restorative process. Led by the pace and emotional safety of the child who was harmed, we help you assess readiness and navigate boundaries to make thoughtful, safe decisions about the future of your family.

The impact of sibling sexual abuse in childhood can ripple into adult life, affecting your relationships, identity, and parenting. We offer a safe, confidential space for adults, partners, siblings and parents to process past trauma, establish healthy boundaries, and find a compassionate pathway to long-term healing.
We introduce ourselves as Dr Jeyda Ibrahim and Dr Oliver Eastman, the co-founders of our specialist service. Together, we bring decades of dedicated clinical expertise to support children, young people, and families facing complex trauma, emotional challenges, and the impacts of harmful sexual behaviour between siblings. We also bring extensive experience working with and assessing neurodivergence. We work collaboratively with parents and children to make sense of what happened without blame or shame, guiding families toward a clear, positive path forward.
I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over a decade of specialist experience supporting children, young people, and families facing complex trauma and emotional challenges. I bring dedicated expertise to our service supporting families impacted by harmful sexual behaviour between siblings.
How I Support Your Family
Specialised Experience in Sibling Dynamics: As an AIM Project Associate, I authored national practice guidance specifically on sibling harmful sexual behaviour. I understand how overwhelming this crisis can feel and create a compassionate, safe space to help families process experiences, rebuild trust, and heal.
Trauma-Informed & Relational Care: Trained in advanced therapeutic approaches—including EMDR, Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT), Video Interactive Guidance (VIG) and Non-Violent Resistance (NVR)—I help families navigate complex trauma and restore a sense of safety within the home.
A Trusted Specialist for Professionals
I bring extensive clinical expertise across multiple specialist inpatient and outpatient NHS CAMHS. I provide supervision, consultation, and deliver specialised training to social care, youth justice, and mental health teams. Understanding that trauma can affect people in different ways, I have extensive experience treating complex mental health problems—such as anxiety disorders, eating disorders, and Complex PTSD.
I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist for our specialist service. With nearly two decades of experience as a registered clinical psychologist, I support work focusing on children, young people, and families who have been impacted by harmful sexual behaviour between siblings.
How I Support Your Family
Specialised Experience in Sibling Dynamics: I co-developed a dedicated service specifically for families affected by sibling sexual abuse. I understand the unique, sensitive, and complex feelings families face and provide compassionate, clear guidance tailored to your situation.
Trauma-Informed & Multi-Age Care: Experienced in working with children and young people aged 5 to 21, I adapt my approach so every family member feels heard. Trained in advanced therapies like Brainspotting and EMDR, I help families process trauma and rebuild trust.
A Trusted Specialist for Professionals
For referring agencies and practitioners, I bring over 15 years of forensic and clinical expertise in risk assessment, court proceedings, and multi-agency consultations. I hold advanced training in evidence-based assessment frameworks (including AIM3 and AIM HSB-S for sibling sexual behaviour), ensuring that all assessments and therapeutic interventions are thoroughly grounded, robust, and aligned with national best practice.